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Opening the Door to Nonviolence.
Part 2: Workshop 7

Workshop 7


Loss and Separation




What we will be doing today: Working on some of the easier separations that have occurred in our lives; practising some simple expressive techniques.


 

Separation is one of the first painful experiences every child has to go through. In war times separation tends to be more often experienced than in other times. In time of peace we also have to go through that experience; we all have someone who is important to us (friends, family members, our pets, toys) but we can't be with them all the time. Let us see what we do in situations when we have to leave them for a longer period of the time. How similar or different are we from others in the group when we have to separate from someone?

1

The awakening of the animals. We name 4 animals (MOUSE, HORSE, CAT, BIRD) and pupils imagine which animal they are going to be. The sun is rising and the animals are awakening, they start with soft voices to call their mates (meowing, neighing etc.) so everyone finds their fellow mice, horses etc. When the teacher gives the sign for separation: everyone goes back to his/her place, separating from their animal group/pair.


5 minutes
2

Peers intimate talks. Everyone chooses partners that they have been not with before. Think a while about your experience of separations - recall a situation from the past and draw a picture of the person (animal,...) you had to separate from. Imagine and draw where would you like him/her to be now. Talk about it to the partner.

Feedback: How did you feel when you had to leave that person? If you could have changed that situation, how would you have changed it?


20 minutes
3

Barometer of feelings. The teacher/leader draws a big barometer on a piece of paper and puts it on the wall (see the drawing). Students come out and put their mark at the place closest to what their feelings were in the situation of separation that they have spoken about. Then we look closely at these feelings together. Give the whole group some time for comments in case there are any.


10 minutes
4

A pair of bellows. We shall do an exercise to release emotional tension before the break. Breathe in slowly and deeply going up onto your toes stretching your arms above your head. Then breathe out quickly producing loudly sound HU, as you come back down with the whole feet on the ground and stretch your arms down against the side of your body (as if lightening flashes were coming out of your arms and entering the ground). The exercise should be repeated (at the most) 5 times, then after a short pause five times more.


5 minutes
5

Model a person/animal/toy using modeling clay showing how they looked the first time you saw them. Make groups of three and discuss the two questions mentioned below while showing your sculptures to one another.

Discussion: Where would you like your precious person/animal/toy to be now? Did they have any characteristics you didn't like?

Discussion in a big circle: Where would you like to keep your sculptures - here in the school or at home? Would you like it to be visible to everyone or would you prefer it hidden? (Everyone gets time to talk about his/her wishes.)


25 minutes
6

Wave game. Everyone waits for a movement to come to them from his/her left side and then passes it to his/her right. The movement is not the same because the person who was the first to start it - changes it every now and then. Tthe others should be careful not to take over the new movement too soon.


5 minutes
7

We are going to learn another song. Listen to the cassette or follow the music sheet. (See Work Sheet)


10 minutes





NEEDS AND FEELINGS






Translation

The boy saw the rose
blooming in the garden.
It was so sweet, and it made
him happy. The boy said:
"I will pick up you:" "No,
you will not, I have
thorns." "I will, I will" -
said the boy and picked
the rose. The rose stung
with the thorns and
injured the boy, but at the
some moment the rose itself was dead.





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